My friend and colleague Dublin Call Girl has a blazingly honest new post up on her blog. It’s about how she felt when Johns/punters reviewed her online. This is a revolting practice where online “escort” sites encourage the men to post reviews of each girl after they’ve used her. It’s not new. Even before the internet there used to be creepy “adult entertainment” news sheets (kind of like today’s backpage) where men wrote these sorts of reviews. But the internet has increased the impact of this dehumanizing practice on prostitutedwomen’s lives. Here’s an excerpt:
This is another review, from someone else, that worries me. This is hardly unique, it took me two seconds to find, there are hundreds of this type (and worse) of review. This is the really sinister side of reviews. Men will visit a girl who clearly, and the men admit this quite openly, doesn’t want to be there, is unhappy, is reluctant. And they review her anyway. They review her in such a way that completely and cleverly avoids any consideration for her, or why she is ‘lifeless’ or why she is ‘mechanical’ or whatever else. Instead of wondering why and how the girl is in this position of unwillingly having sex for money, they are pissed off, indignant about their wasted money. This is what paying does; it takes the responsibility out of the punter’s hands. It takes the human out of both sides.
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Johns really are pigs, but that is insulting to pigs I guess. There is no word base enough to describe this type of ‘man’.
It was so hard to read this. I cannot imagine. I have no words.
I am weeping.